Friday, March 12, 2010

Role reversal date...fail

Ok, so I told my BF Robert that I was gonna do a reversal of the "traditional" role of the guy paying for all expenses of a date. My plan was to be all "macho" in a girly way :) and pay for our date. Ok, fail #1 was that he picked me up. I would have picked him up, but he lives way to far and it would have taken an additional 30 minutes for me to go for him. Fail #2, I didnt plan ahead and I had no idea where I wanted to eat. I guess I was suppose to have planned it all out before, but I'm way too undecisive. We ended up going to Texas Steakhouse. I did open the doors for him, I remembered to do that. I was a perfect gentle-woman. As we walked past the tables and piles of peanut shells on the floor (Texas Steakhouse gives you all you can eat peanutes at your table IDK why, but ok) I would have pulled out his chair too, but it was a booth so that idea was a No Go.

I think it would be funny to add, that our waiter was totally a flamboyant closet gay who was totally checking out and semi-hitting on Robert. It was FAB-U-LOUS!!! He was totally cold towards me when taking my order and when he took my plate away he nearly hit me in my face with the plate and he didnt even say sorry. With Robert on the other hand, he kept asking where he had seen him before because he swears he looked familiar, he asked him if his steak was delicious (with a lil smile), and kept standing by his side of the table with a lil hip side stance, and totally ignored me. Hey, Im not complaining, if only he had given us a discount, that would have been awesome. I found the whole situation quite hilarious.

Anyways, back to the date. When the bill came, of coarse the waiter gave it to Robert and smiled, "Hope you enjoyed yourself" (wink wink) ....LOL Ok Ok I might be exagerating that last part but it was that kinda feelinig. I rushed to put my hand on the receipt, but he took it from me. Fail #3, he ended up paying for it. But I DID reimburse him later for it $$ (against his will but I placed the money on his desk anyways) At the parking lot, I took his keys and opened his door for him. Im sure he felt like a princess afterwards..LOL. Then we went to ROSS, my kinda date! HaHa, actually it was his idea,he needed a belt and some other stuff. Still, it was a fun time walking down the clothes aisles and lingerie line LMFAO. I was so proud that I didnt buy anything, Im trying to hold back on my purchasing urges. Ill wait til my next paycheck for that. Anyways..Then we went to his place to hang out. But that was pretty much it. Next time, I will plan it out more and do the whole pick him up and pay up front for our dinner. It was so much fun though, I strongly suggest ya'll try this idea. You will have fun and you dont have to make it anything fancy either. Its the little details like opening doors that makes it cute. :)



Here are some pics of us together, post-date so we look tired and blahhhhhh. (ohh and yes, he is wearing my head band LOL, it made him look like a pretty pretty princess LOL :)



Until next time my lovelies <3

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