ECLIPSE!

Sorry for the extremely delayed post!

Tuesday night (06/29/10) my nieces Esamar, Sandra, and I went to a midnight screening of the new Twilight movie : Eclipse. I am not a die-hard fan, but my nieces are, so I was the nice aunt who agreed to go with them. I like the series and really wanted to see this new one, so it wasn't a tough decision to go with them. Keep in mind that my nieces are 17 and 19 respectfully so it was more of a fun girls night out. Anyways, we went to a ghetto south side theater and of course there were technical difficulties and the movie started 15 minutes late and people were shouting out things to start the movie. It was all pretty wierd and unnecesary. Once the movie actually started, everyone gasped and was like "ohh my goddddd", my nieces included. Every single little joke or punch line people would laugh out loud, or scene with Jacob without his shirt (and there are several of them wink wink) the whole crowd would be like wooooOOO or burst out with little whispered sayings like ohh baby! It was actually a really good movie and I highly recommend it. Even if your not a die hard fan, it is worth watching. There are actual action scenes and the love triangle plot between Bella, Edward, and Jacob gets really good. Like really REALLY good! (*spoiler alert: Bella kisses Jacob! LIKE O-M-G!!) Lots of new faces but same characters which is wierd to see but doesnt distract too much from the story. Laugh at me if you want, but I liked it and I gotta admit the cheesy lovey dovey stuff is cute. It's a cute movie, with cute actors, and cute story line. GO SEE IT...NOW!

what goes around, comes around

*warning...another boring relationship blog

It seems to be true that what goes around comes around. In regards to the "relationships" that I've had, that seems to be the case. My only 2 real boyfriends rejected me late last year and early this year. The first Ex left me for someone else and the second Ex broke up with me cause he wanted to be just friends. I had no choice but to accept and deal with both those situations. The next 2 people I went on a "date" with, I was not that into, so I fed them the line that ..."I'm not really looking for a relationship right now but I'd like to be friends with you." Well both of them didn't take kindly to that answer and just kinda blew me off afterwards. A few months later, I met someone I really really was liking, but now it was him who gave me that same line..."I'm not looking for a relationship right now but I'd like to still 'hang out' with you." That was a disappointment, but I had to deal with it. And now, the most recent guy...who everyone told me not to get involved with is now also telling me he doesn't want a relationship with me either but still wants to be "friends". Quote un-quote. *clears throat* LOL. I'm not a slut I promise, and I never thought I'd be a "friends with benefits" kind of girl so I don't know how that will end up. It is also interesting to note that with the most recent one, I had initially not wanted anything to do with him relationship-wise and told him I wanted to only be friends even though he told me he liked me, now it is I who likes him and he who doesn't want anything to do with me relationship-wise. I guess love really is a game of cat and mouse huh?

But.....GEEEZZZZZ.....I got rejected 2 times, did the rejecting 2 times, and got rejected back another 2 times. If this keeps up, I should look forward to breaking 2 more hearts in the future? LOL

got the tickets

So I got my tickets for Warped Tour today. I'm kind excited but then again I'm not. There are not very many bands I know of and who I think are good. But still, it is always quite an experience to have. I expect alot of roaming around and listening to different unknown bands, walking through huge crowds of sweat soaked teens, and drinking lots of water, using terribly scary porta-potties, nearly passing out from heat exposure, and much more fun! LOL! Warped tour comes to San Antoni July 1st. Almost here!

This Friday June 25 is also the concert for Tito el Bambino. I might have an extra ticket, I had bought 2 and printed out the tickets, but the person who I was gonna go with might not be able to go after all. Hopefully things work out though and I wont have to sell my ticket elsewhere. Anyways, I'll see if I can take pics and post them. I need something interesting to blog about and something with some actual pictues.

Also coming up is the Twilight saga premier of Eclipse. I already have my nieces bugging me to buy pre-sale tickets to the midnight screening of the movie June 29. We went last year and it really is quite the experience to see a whole bunch of teenage girls all excited AND grown women amont them just as excited. LOL, I think I'll cave in and purchase the tickets again.

Then comes the Aventura concert July 2nd which I am going to with my niece. That should also be quite the experience. That group is so popular among the ladies especially and among romantic bachata fans. Not to mention that the lead singer Romeo is a complete hottie! LOL, thats gonna be another fun night.

Then July 3rd is my Birthday. Im getting old! LOL

No plans as of yet, but I should be content that I have so many plans already with these concerts/movie. Its a good few weeks coming up!

update

Well since the last post, the things with my parents has cooled down a bit. The next day after they told me all that, my mother was sorry and asked me to understand where they were coming from. I totally understand but I also said that Im an adult and I can be with whoever I chose. They still dont like the idea, but it was at least a glimmer of hope for my independence. Anyways Hector and I had been talking and hanging out since then. Nothing serious though, I'm not gonna run off with him and get married. In fact, things have actually gotten a lil bit sour and I sense a stand off-ish tone from him, so I dont know where this whole thing is going. But shit happens, and all I can do is wait to see how things play out.

parental control

Last night, my parents actually made me cry. I always take into account any advice my parents have for me, but for the most part I act on my own will...I mean come on, I'm 25 years old. Yes, I technically still live on their property, but I should at least be allowed to make my own decisions when it comes to my personal life...right???
Anyways, I have been seeing this guy who I met at our neighborhood park and he just so happens to live on my street too. I had a few posts up about him but I took them down cause it was all drama and I don't want gossip to dominate this blog. Although this here entry is also a rant/gossip. Back to the story...Its obvious that my parents do NOT like this guy for me at all. Although they are friendly to him and my mom has joked with me about him several times, so I had thought all was well. Last I was over at his house at night and around 10 my mother calls me and begins to tell me all this stuff about how my dad is disappointed in me, how I should worry about what the neighbors are gonna be thinking of me, how I have no shame, how I've lost my dignity and self-respect, how from now on I'm gonna be needing my fathers permission whenever I go out, and that if I wanted to be with this guy that I might as well just stay and move in with him, basically suggesting they would rather kick me out than to deal with me. WTF man, how can my parents seriously think they can controll me. But none the less, it did hurt to hear all this coming from your own mother. I have always been close to them and yes I have been very sheltered and protected. But when I do finally act independently and am happy doing it, they get all worked up basically try to put me down. They want me to get away from him, and it worked. He overhead the whole conversation and felt bad and apologized for bringing me problems with my family. He walked me home and I basically was beginning to tear up just thinking about what my mother had told me. It was also embarassing that I can still be influenced by my parents like that. Again he apologized for being the cause of such issies. But this is not about him, its about how my parents want to still control me and as it seems, to have me be miserable, unhappy, and alone at home the rest of my life. I was so pissed off and hurt, still am actually. I don't even wanna talk to either one of my parents right now because I don't know what I'll say, but they can't hold me back from living my life forever. Even if I have to revert to the old teenage tricks of sneaking around LOL. How pathetic am I. Ughhh, I'm not even fit to call myself a woman. I'm a lil girl who lets my parents still influence me like they do. But I'll tell you, it really does hurt to have your own mother and father say such things about you. I'm kinda disappointed that I didn't stand my ground and stay with him, but I am still learning to stand up for myself. Parents are scary!

which style?

STRAIGHT HAIR?

CURLY HAIR??

or COWGIRL?? LOL

(I was really really bored, and was looking through my pictures...I dont know which style fits me best. I tend to like the wavy curly hair that I create with hot rollers because its easier and quicker than having to straighten it. Different moods and different looks require different hair styles. Thats what I love about being a girl, we have so many options available to us...in our looks, makeup, wardrobe, and men LOL!!!!!! j/k j/k)