update

Well since the last post, the things with my parents has cooled down a bit. The next day after they told me all that, my mother was sorry and asked me to understand where they were coming from. I totally understand but I also said that Im an adult and I can be with whoever I chose. They still dont like the idea, but it was at least a glimmer of hope for my independence. Anyways Hector and I had been talking and hanging out since then. Nothing serious though, I'm not gonna run off with him and get married. In fact, things have actually gotten a lil bit sour and I sense a stand off-ish tone from him, so I dont know where this whole thing is going. But shit happens, and all I can do is wait to see how things play out.