For the very few people who actually may read this blog, sorry for no recent entries. I've always been open about what happens to me and write about stuff, but as of late I have been hesitant to write because of certain people who I know have read my blog. (the EXs and family members).
But for the most part, not much has changed. I mentioned in my last blog somene special. Wellll, it is a difficult situation because when I first met this person, I was the one not wanting any type of official relationshiip. However, its been about 2 months and I've really grown to like him more and more and now would want a real relationship. But now it is HE who doesn't want a relationship. We are currently "friends". I guess it is ok for now. I really should be careful with this one because he is kinda a "mujeriego" aka ladies-man, aka player...at least he used to be. Do people really change? Is it possible for a player to turn faithful and loyal? He says he would but since he doesn't want a relationship, it makes me wonder what he's doing when I'm not with him. Hmmmmm......It is kinda like an angel (me) wanting to be with a little devil (him). The good girl/bad boy combo...does that ever really work out?
Anyways, thats what has been going on with me. One more question..has anyone ever been accused of being a "cougar" or a "sugga momma" LOL because I am being called both of these!?! LOL
hmm, interesting. You know what I've learned from all the men in my life (brothers, not int he slutty way), men are usually pretty straigh forward. It is us who are blinded. They're pretty simple creatures. They say what they mean and that's that.
ReplyDeleteWhat I'm trying to get at is that if he's telling you that he doesn't want something serious, then he's telling you the truth. That's not to say that he can't change and become a loyal bf or husband, but if and when it does happen, it will be on his own terms.
We really can't expect people to change for us, because that never works. but if they truly want to change, for whatever reason, they will. But I have the feeling he'll let you know when he's ready to make that change.
My advice would be to not read too much into what he's saying. He probably means exactly what he says, no more, no less.
So if you decide to stick around, do so knowing that you may be on the not so favorable part of the story. Is this still the guy down the street? or someone new?
Yeah it's the same guy. There is more to it, but I was leaving out the details. The thing is he jokes around alot about my parents being his "suegros" and us getting married and having kids. blahh blahh blahh. We say it joking but I get the feeling his is trying to test me to see how I react. He even tries to set me up with his friends, to see if I would. And since he's technically single, he has other gal friends who basically offer themselves to him but he is very honest and that I know of, he hasn't been with anyone else. He comes over to my place almost every night. I know our status, we're both single and I know it is a possibility for him to go elsewhere. Its like I'm giving him the freedom to be single, but in the end he comes home to me. Like I said, its difficult.
ReplyDeletewell at least you know what you're getting yourself into. so your parents don't know he spends the night or does he just visit? It's tough keeping things from people you love. But, at least you both know what you're doing.
ReplyDeleteSee, there was a bit of drama a while back because they didn't like me to be going over to his place. It got kinda ugly, but they ended up suggesting he come over instead of me going to him. "Dile que el venga para aque si es que quiere". I'm guessing they maybe be regretting that because now he is coming over but only a few hours not the whole night. We watch novelas, movies, eat whatever is around, talk, cuddle, ect ect. But yeah...they know.
ReplyDeleteBTW i do have my own apartment space (still on parental property but separate), not in my old room in my parents house...that would be awkward.
ReplyDeleteyou know my mom told me the same thing about Freddie. She said he could come over but I couldn't go over. And I actually was inside the house. it was really awkward when my dad saw us kissing one time. But it was different because I was like 18 at the time. These days I don't think I would care what they saw. Girl got needs! lol.
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