So I met this guy online who is in my city and seemed like a cool guy to be friends with. I was clear that I wasn't looking for a BF and just was looking to make friends, and he understood, or at least I thought so. He was nice and funny too, so when he asked me to go see a movie with him I agreed. This was thursday night, saw the midnight screening of Nighmare on Elm Street (good movie by the way, but not scary enough for me. I was semi laughing throughout the movie, he was a lil scared though LOL) Anyways, after the movie we talked for a few minutes outside and then we each went our own way. I thought, wow I have a friend in the city I can finally just hang out with. But friday afternoon he asks me what I thought of him. I said that he was a nice person but not the type I would date, but that I'd like to have him as a friend like we had talked about. Well, he said "Thanks for the honesty, I appreciate it...I'm not looking for a friend but it was very nice to have met you and good luck in all your endeavors :) Have a good night and take care "
I was surprised, how can someone at first say its cool to be friends, then turn around and say they don't even want that. WOW, is this what the dating game is like. I dont really have much experience, but it is really that difficult to be friends with someone of the opposite sex. This is literally like the 5th time (2 actual relationships, and the rest possibilities but never actually realized) that someone "dumps" me as a friend saying they don't wanna be friends afterwards, or say they will but dont really. GEEEZZZZ :(
I have one more "friend" that I still have hope in, but I'm not gonna give my hopes up.
oh, no he wanted to be more than a friend. so sad. You really don't like him like that? It really is that difficult to be friends with the oppossite sex. I've been friends with Ed (you know who) since 1st grade so that's the only reason it works. It's not impossible, just tough. We should go to the movies together, now that I'm free of shopping.
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